In responding to V’s post, I want to just say: your past follows you to the present if the two are closely linked. So if you an Asian man murdered a Black woman in cold blood (no matter what the circumstances), it is reasonable for any person to question your maintaining a site that encourages love between Black women and Asian men. Sure, there is the polemic that one person is not the site and the site is not one person but on some matters like this one you cannot just brush a murder off with that argument. That’s my opinion; I said a lot more in the July post. And no more need be said.